{"id":3627,"date":"2024-04-21T03:47:08","date_gmt":"2024-04-21T03:47:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/esthelanunezfranco.com\/?p=3627"},"modified":"2024-05-04T12:41:51","modified_gmt":"2024-05-04T12:41:51","slug":"i-had-to-see-him-again","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/esthelanunezfranco.com\/es\/i-had-to-see-him-again\/","title":{"rendered":"Ten\u00eda que verlo otra vez"},"content":{"rendered":"

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Mis sue\u00f1os m\u00e1s salvajes lo incluyen a \u00e9l, un ser vivo que ocupa un lugar importante en mi vida. Principalmente, nuestras interacciones se caracterizan por una presencia<\/em> compartida en un momento, en el aqu\u00ed y ahora, donde no hay pasado ni futuro. Esta din\u00e1mica \u00fanica alimenta mi deseo de verlo repetidamente. Algunos de mis sentimientos y emociones poco realistas lo reflejan; Van y vienen, cada vez dej\u00e1ndome con ganas de m\u00e1s de \u00e9l. Todo lo que puedo hacer es cabalgarlos como olas del oc\u00e9ano y disfrutar de su presencia<\/em> con la mayor frecuencia posible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

La distancia entre nosotros es insuficiente para mantenernos pregunt\u00e1ndonos c\u00f3mo estamos el uno al otro. La presencia es la culpable de volvernos a unir cada vez. Me pregunto si \u00e9l piensa en m\u00ed tanto como yo siento por \u00e9l. Como pensador excesivo nato, lo dudo. Nadie en su sano juicio disfrutar\u00eda creando tormentas interminables dentro de su cerebro mientras intenta refugiarse de ellas sin parar. No pude evitar permitir que me tocara hoy; Le dije mucho sin que una sola palabra saliera de mi boca. \u00c9l me conoce demasiado bien; \u00e9l me conoce mejor que nadie.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u00bfC\u00f3mo puede ser esto? S\u00f3lo hemos disfrutado de la presencia del otro un pu\u00f1ado de veces. Qui\u00e9n sabe y, francamente, a qui\u00e9n le importa; algunas cosas se disfrutan s\u00f3lo con la presencia y s\u00f3lo en el tiempo presente. Algunas relaciones no pueden funcionar de otra manera. Debo confesar que las relaciones no me resultan f\u00e1ciles. Me supero en bloquear a las personas antes de conocerlas. Esta habilidad hist\u00f3rica ha sido una larga tradici\u00f3n en mi vida.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Nos conocimos cuando yo ten\u00eda diez a\u00f1os, a poca distancia de donde fue tomada esta foto. Nuestra amistad de treinta y seis a\u00f1os permanece intacta porque hemos mantenido la distancia y permitido que el respeto mutuo sea una divisi\u00f3n tremenda y necesaria entre nosotros. Aclar\u00f3 que la primera vez que nos encontramos se requer\u00eda respeto, tranquilidad, y paz, y una lecci\u00f3n como esa hay que recordarla. Esta lecci\u00f3n y muchas otras han dado forma a mi perspectiva sobre las relaciones y la importancia del respeto mutuo, la tranquilidad, y la paz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Las fotos dan forma a mi vida y me recuerdan ese sentimiento de presencia<\/em> que adoro y necesito para mantenerme viva y humana. La persona que tom\u00f3 esta foto sin mi conocimiento no se dio cuenta de captar la presencia<\/em> de una amistad de treinta y seis a\u00f1os. Todo el mundo toma fotograf\u00edas por diferentes motivos o prop\u00f3sitos que s\u00f3lo ellos conocen. Despu\u00e9s de ver la imagen, no pude evitar concluir que, en este caso, correlaci\u00f3n es igual a causalidad. El fot\u00f3grafo y mi amigo son an\u00e1logos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Esta foto es un testimonio de mi relaci\u00f3n y presencia<\/em> con ambos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A veces nos quedamos con una foto; A veces, eso es todo lo que necesitamos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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